Victoria Bender, Certified Transitional Doula

Practicing Master Aromatherapy, Shiatsu, Reiki and Reflexology for Body, Mind & Spirit

Major transitions such as the grief that accompanies losing a loved one, facing a terminal diagnosis, overcoming major illnesses and all those life altering challenges need support for the whole person, mind, body and spirit.

My practice is designed to help you get through these overwhelming challenges with holistic practices that address the whole person.

My end of life program includes caring, compassionate vigils, home funerals and green burials.

Public speaker and author having released audio lectures for the Alliance of International Aromatherapist, numerous multi-application Aromatherapy/Energy/Eco-friendly lifestyle workshops throughout New York, New Jersey and New England focused on holistic awareness, aromatherapy, and green living.

I am also grateful to have had the opportunity to contribute to and co-author a Psycho-Neurological-Endocrine balancing technique by leading holistic health specialist and inventor, Dr. Starwynn OMD.

There is no such thing as a safe commercial cleaning product.

They Poison all living things.

We Can make a difference!

the alchemy of vinegar


Since 5000 B.C.E. vinegar has a distinguished history of cleansing, preserving and healing!

  • Vinegar is 99.9% disinfectant! No retail product on the shelf is listed as any more than 99.9% disinfectant.

  • Vinegar is Non-Toxic, less trips to the emergency room.

  • Adding essential oils to your vinegar cleaning recipes adds anti-viral, anti-microbial, anti-fungal, disinfectant and antiseptic properties to your homemade products.

ancient knowledge

  • cleaning recipes

    Cleaning 101! Easily create your own clean green remedies for a fraction of the price of store-bought products.

  • learn

    Accessible resources of easily comprehensible science behind clean green alchemy and aromatherapy. After all, science is magic that’s real!

  • Natural Perfume

    Simple instructions for making your very own natural wildcrafted perfume recipes. Come to your senses!